MY STORY
A bit about me...
Today I am living a life I have continuously dreamed about.
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Today I am me, a me that I not only like but a me that unconditionally love.
Today I lead a life of Confidence, Self-Love, Authenticity and Empowered Fulfilment,
but it wasn’t always that way...
I became a carer for my mum as a young child, before spending a long time in foster care due to my dad’s sudden death and then as my mum’s health diminished which was later followed by her suicide. I harboured pain and bottled up resentment for a long time. I never felt like I was enough and was constantly drowning in self-doubt, lack of confidence and self-hatred.
I felt a constant mixture of negative emotions which weighed on me daily and gave me absolutely nothing to feel good or to like about myself.
I was engulfed in what was then, a constant state of negativity and doubt, as I continued to exist
in what felt like my unchangeable mediocre life.
I was living life completely in Black and White, desperately seeking colour.
Then one day after feeling the weight of my thoughts and behaviours for far too long, for once
I chose myself and I said enough.
Looking in the mirror, I spoke to myself with conviction telling myself “I am worth it” and “I will find a way to feel how I want to feel and be who I want to be".
"I am worth more."
I was ambitious and felt my potential within me like ignited ember’s rising from deep inside.
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I knew there was more to life and more for me to give.
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From that day on I made a commitment to myself to dedicate time to my personal growth; to grow mentally, physically and spiritually.
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I started my journey to change with ‘You’re a badass’, a book by Jen Sincero.
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I called time on the lame excuses I had been feeding myself for years and stopped being an enabler to
my own self-sabotaging behaviours.
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Which in turn opened a door to a whole new world where I was no longer the victim of my own story,
but the
Hero.
I went from one book to the next,
(which was completely unlike me, as a then non-reader)
soaking up every bit of advice and information available.
I signed up for self-improvement classes, I listened to podcast’s and audio books.
I spent time connecting with myself, getting to know the real me for the first time in years.
I tried all types of fitness classes which I had always
been too scared to try,
(thank you, Les Mills, I love you forever!)
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This was completely new to me, but was
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bloody brilliant!
Then I found
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The first time I was coached it blew my mind.
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How could it be so powerful?!?
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My entire way of thinking changed immediately,
enabling me to understand people and their actions
during situations from both my past and my present.
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This allowed me to forgive and move forward with
what was only useful and beneficial to my future.
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My views and perceptions on almost everything in my life changed for the better, giving me a new hunger for life and a new adventure.
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Coaching opened my eyes and gave me clarity when I desperately needed it.
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I began studying and became an Accredited Coach and NLP practitioner.
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It was like the universe was waiting for me to realise I had the tools to start living life on my terms the whole time
Coaching.
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Now, I choose myself.
Now, I live a life of freedom.
Now, I have my own business.
Now, I love who I see in the mirror.
Now, I am unapologetically and lovingly myself.
Now, I am not afraid to speak my truth & let my voice be heard.
Now, I am confident and proud of who I am and where I come from.
Now, I know I am worthy of love and the adventures life has in store for me.
Now, I see the world in
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I lead with my
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I share my
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multicolour.
heart,
light.
Has my story resonated with you?
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If so, I would love to guide you to unconditional self-love and true acceptance so you can level up your life and achieve your goals.